It would be nice if Christians of multiple parishes or denominations came together for more than just interdenominational Lenten studies and similar activities (nothing wrong with these, but it seems that’s often the only time churches can organize such things). Here’s an idea: how about hosting choral evensong services?
Not familar with this term? It’s a form of the evening prayer service in the BCP that is primarily chanted or sung.
I was somewhat inspired by this idea after regularly prayed Evening Prayer on Fridays with the help of The Daily Office’s Video Evensong service. It’s a real treat that blends traditional and contemporary music.
Here are several reasons that such a service can be a good idea:
- Many congregations have no choir or one with few members – combining choirs provides more chances to sing beautiful worship music
- If some contemporary music is incorporated, it gives church musicians a chance to use their talents
- Depending on the time of year and location, the service might be a good one to hold outdoors
I’ll be posting a suggested outline that people may want to use as a resource on The Liturgical Christianity Portal blog (which is not going anywhere, but more on that later) soon.
Various groups over the years have seen themselves as a “peculiar people” (I Peter 2:9), a designation that applies to Christians as a whole. For many of us of the Episcopalian persuasion, others see us as peculiar according to the dictionary definition.
A recent visitor to my Liturigical Christianity Portal blog’s Facebook page shared her struggles as an Episcopalian in a largely non-Episcopalian area. Much of what she said resonated with me in my own experiences.
Some things I’ve learned while living in the proverbial “Bible Belt”:
- Many people simply want to convert you because you’re not part of their sect – It’s unlikely you will make any headway in such cases unless they accept that others can be saved. Pray to show the light of Christ in your interactions with them.
- Others, because of theological differences, may see traditional practices as lacking in light of the personal conversion experiences favored by evangelicals – This can be an opportunity to explain our practices, and how they bring others closer to God. Realization that Jesus never manadated sinners’ prayers or altar calls, and that these are based on certain historic traditions, may lead to a better understanding of the role of traditions.
- At the end of the day, what unites Christians is more important than what divides us. – There is, after all, one hope of our calling that were are called to (Ephesians 4:4). Keeping our focus on Christ, where it belongs, can help bring about a more unified Body.
Maybe our evangelism needs to be more like this famous man’s and less like some of today’s “teachers”
Colossians 4:5 – 6 has some of the wisest advice in Scripture, situated within a chapter that many overlook because of its directives that apply to another culture. However, there is some wisdom for this day and age that you should bear in mind when reading.
The Church in its infancy struggled with the role of marginalized groups, such as women, Gentile believers, and slaves. Admidst this, the earliest followers had to figure out how to best reach out to people in a way that united, rather than divided.
Many people today use little, if any, discretion in their dealings with each other. This holds true not only for religious beliefs, but also for politics and other idealogy-based beliefs.
It’s unfortunately easier for people to shout out or shut out ideas they don’t like than appreciate the fact that the other person has their own “story” that has influenced their beliefs. This doesn’t mean we must accept everyone’s beliefs as truth, but that we should season our words with salt in order to approach others.
Think about it, why are you more likely to listen to? One that constantly tells you you’re wrong, evil, headed to eternal separation from God, etc. for disagreeing, or one that respects where you’re coming from and tries to understand?
Preaching the Gospel for Christians is often about having doors opened that would otherwise be closed. We need to strive to make sure the door remains open for us, rather than acting in a way that makes non-believers shut us out.
Remember the old adage about how God gave us two ears but only one mouth. Maybe this is so we can listen more and use our talk more responsibly.
When we hear the Gospel reading from Luke 24:1-12, we hear one of the phrases in Scripture that is so important, yet so overlooked: “Why do you seek the living among the dead? He is not here, but is risen” There is so much faith and hope in these words!
These words are true not only for Jesus, but for us. Yet, why do we, in so many cases, keep looking for those whom God has called into God’s nearer presence, as though the grave/columbarium/wherever is the end of the story? For all those who have been baptized into, lived and died in God’s fellowship, it’s not the end by a long shot.
It’s often said that death brings out the worst in people. Things often change for the worse in a family after losing one of their members, and some of the turmoil is caused by common beliefs that aren’t truly Scriptural, but people insist on clinging to just the same.
Grief is difficult, and often compounded by guilt and mourning what could have been. When family members somehow feel as though following every final wish to the letter is absolutely sacrosanct, the focus shifts away from the Christian hope and onto death.
Maybe if we were to focus on what God did for us through Christ’s life, death, and resurrection, we could allow ourselves to step away from the tomb and into a fuller, more abundant life. Here are a couple of thoughts for your consideration:
- Do not stand at my grave and weep.
- I am not there; I do not sleep.
- I am a thousand winds that blow.
- I am the diamond glints on snow.
- I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
- I am the gentle autumn rain.
- When you awaken in the morning’s hush
- I am the swift uplifting rush
- Of quiet birds in circled flight.
- I am the soft stars that shine at night.
- Do not stand at my grave and cry;
- I am not there; I did not die. – Mary Frye
From the 1979 Book of Common Prayer, re: the Burial Office
The liturgy for the dead is an Easter liturgy. It finds all meaning in the
resurrection. Because Jesus was raised from the dead, we too, shall be
The liturgy, therefore, is characterized by joy, in the certainty that
“neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present,
nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else
in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ
Jesus our Lord.”
This joy, however, does not make human grief unchristian. The very love
we have for each other in Christ brings deep sorrow when we are parted
by death. Jesus himself wept at the grave of his friend. So, while we
rejoice that one we love has entered into the nearer presence of our Lord,
we sorrow in sympathy with those who mourn.
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“I am just asking for prayer for myself. I am a officer at a state prison and want to help these people learn and get back on their feet. But, like many other prisons, we don’t have the support of management when it comes to enforcing rules. As much as I want to help them learn, they do need to be held accountable for their actions. It has been a struggle recently in how I have treated them based on my frustrations with management.
“I just need prayer that I keep treating the inmates fairly and not let my frustration with management affect my days.”
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I haven’t posted any answered FAQs in awhile, and have an unaddressed one that I think is worth sharing.
Q. I know of a Catholic family that recently lost a lapsed Episcopalian family member and did not call for an Episcopal priest to do last rites so far as I know. This has caused some friction with another family member who felt that they intentionally denied their loved one last rites because they were more concerned about keeping their relative’s spirits up and seemed to think a pastoral visit would needlessly depress them. Even though the deceased Episcopalian was not devout, did their relatives have the right to refuse to call a priest, if that is in fact what they did?
A. In short – no, the only person that would have had the right to refuse the sacrament of healing (which is what the service commonly known as last rites is) was the deceased themselves. Even if they were lapsed, they would still have access to the sacraments as a baptized member. There are a lot of misconceptions about “last rites” as performed in the TEC, namely that it is drawn-out, requires a last confession, has to be done only when death is imminent, or can be done after death – none of which are true.
It’s entirely possible that the family, because of the difference in denominations, did not see the sacrament of healing, as performed in the Episcopal Church, as being as valid as or similar to their own. I’ve provided some general info below that anyone can use as a helpful reference that hopefully answers questions.
The healing service only takes a few minutes, and any family members present are welcome to join in the prayers. Although the church member MAY make a confession, it is not required and, indeed, in our church, the general confession is sufficient. The sick or dying person receives the laying on of hands and anointing with oil, and may receive communion if they are able to, as can baptized family members or friends present who want to. Should a priest arrive after death, a different set of prayers for the person’s soul and comfort of the family is performed. Rather than dragging a person down and depressing them, it can serve to give a person hope and somewhat of a sense of refreshment. If this family did deny their loved one this sacrament, they all missed out on a true gift and blessing from God.
I’m straying from the usual lectionary reading or TEC-based post to revisit one of my topics that generated some good discussion: does forgiveness mean just forgetting about what someone did to you and acting like it never happened?
In Matthew 18:21-22, Peter addresses Jesus, essentially asking how many times he must forgive someone who’s sinned against him. Jesus’ response is figurative, but clear: we are to forgive, just as God has forgiven us.
Forgiveness is often misunderstand, as it is often tied in with the old cliche about forgiving and forgetting. In many peoples’ minds, true forgiveness means forgetting about what happened.
This isn’t true, however. We can forgive someone for having wronged us, without forgetting what happened or allowing them to hurt us again.
Forgiveness isn’t for the benefit of the person who wronged you – it’s for your good. Forgiveness frees you from the resentment their behavior may have caused, letting you maintain your relationship with God and live the abundant life that God promised.
One of the tricky things about forgiving others is the fact that sometimes it seems like you won’t get there. I learned this the hard way recently, and it is very difficult.
Sometimes you need to forgive someone who sinned against who has since died and can’t demonstrate repentance. You may even have to forgive others who have wronged you because of what someone else did.
We must always remember it’s not about an arbitrary number of times you must forgive or demanding proof of the other’s repentance. It’s about freeing ourselves from others’ hurtful, inconsiderate and sometimes hateful influence and living in the light.
As the liturgical churches move past this year’s celebration of the Week of Prayer for Christian Unity, we see how much of a move there is for Christianity unity on a global scale. However, it’s easy to overlook that fact that a lot of efforts at unity start at a more localized level, even in our individual parishes/congregations and families.
There are many ways in which we can start achieving greater understanding among groups that aren’t dependent upon actions by larger ecumenical bodies. After reading the suggestions below, please feel free to add your own:
- Be Less of a Denominational Apologist – Although there are many important doctrines commonly taught in most groups, placing too much focus on doctrine specific to one denomination is more divisive than unifying. Instead, putting more emphasis on what we have in common goes a longer way.
- Think Globally, But Act Locally – There are many opportunities on a local level, such as Lenten programs run by local ministerial groups or community Bible studies, that bring together Christians of various stripes. If such opportunities don’t exist in your area, consider joining forces with others to start them.
- Never Assume Two Groups Treat Doctrines Exactly the Same Way – It’s very easy to think, for example, that all groups that teach some sort of baptismal regeneration believe the unbaptized are automatically damned or that groups that believe in a communion of saints all have the same views about saintly intercession. Instead, it’s more helpful to approach all of these doctrinal positions on their own terms, as each group understands them.
- Don’t Overlook Others’ Spiritual Experiences – It’s unfortunately easy to dismiss the spiritual experiences that others may have because they are different. Always treat the beliefs of others with the same respect you expect of yours.
- Avoid Presumptions About Others’ Beliefs – Some might feel inclined to laugh at an evangelical who attends an Episcopal church and assumes an usher is a deacon or a Catholic relative who assumes that non-Catholic clergy are “preachers” with no sacramental authority. However, bear in mind the fact that many people have little knowledge of denominations other than theirs, and this is a good starting-off point to discuss your similarities and differences.
What small steps do you think Christians can take to increase their understanding of each other?
Hello All – God Bless You from Ontario, Canada
I am asking for immediate and urgent prayer for my marriage.
We have been together over 30 years and married for 28.
Satan is attempting to destroy our union. There is another woman in another country. He has been cursed and the devil is using this woman and her spells to destroy our union.
I stand against satan and ask you join me in prayer and do so also.
Please pray for this so-called relationship to be absolved immediately, totally and completely and that my husband is returned to me heart, mind, body soul and spirit.
Please pray for my anger, pain and frustration. Pray for us to each forgive one another for the issues that brought us here.
Please pray that Frank, my husband, see the error of his ways and seek mental health and spiritual help, bringing him back to God, to me and our girls with total forgiveness and complete commitment.
Please pray that this curse be lifted and his mind healed. Please pray that he continues to heal physically.
I will not survive this pain without you prayers and support and God’s merciful grace and intercession.
I believe that God does not believe in divorce and that His will for us is to be rejoined in the same matrimonial commitment and bliss that we shared on February 20, 1988, when we were first married. Pray this happens immediately.
PLEASE PRAY NOW AND DO NOT CEASE PRAYING UNTIL I AM ABLE TO SHARE MY PRAISE REPORT.
May God Bless You All for your faithfulness. I need you now, more than ever, please, please, please pray.
Teresa A. D’Agostino
Thank you so much for your prayers over our family’s financial situation. Appreciate your continued prayers for provision and security over our income/salary and benefits protection. We’ve heard nothing more from the company. So we are being proactive in checking on the situation. Please pray for God’s great favor. Also, Galen has a couple interviews during lunches which are good possibilities. Particularly, please pray for a job with Compassion International that is said to open in July-that it may come available sooner. Meanwhile, he continues to work hard as ever on his current job and do the best he can.
I have applied for several writing jobs in hopes something may come through. The book will not be published until the fall. So, we need something going to help us through. Thank you for praying boldly. We love you so much!
Many Blessings in Christ,
Teresa J. Herbic email@example.com
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